'The thing that is really hard and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.'- Anna Quindlen.
We always say, giving up is not an option and should not be an option. But yes, sometimes a phrase comes in your life where you have to give up for your betterment.
Sometimes you might be experiencing a situation where you are feeling upset, not satisfied, depressed in works but you want to preserve it for a little more time, then it is high time that you must think of leaving that work. Stop showing perfection in all things and stop being perfect all the time. It won't help you but you will lose yourself slowly. Blind persistence could turn into an exhausting and useless quest.
Making yourself happy and listening to your heart, have to be your main priority and not making you physically and mentally ill. You might cry all night when nobody sees you, but you have to smile all the times because you are a human being and you have to keep a balance.
So here are some signs that might help you to know, when it is your time to give up. Let's scroll down to have a look:
Your problem solving task may take all your happiness
If you think that you are not enjoying your life to the fullest, because of your work issues and the problems that has occurred in your life, dear it is high time. Think again and may be this is the first sign of your giving up.
Yes, your desire to become a perfect person, to attain a goal is natural but do not stop focusing on the precious things you have around like friends, family and many more. Do not let this thing happen to you. You might work all day but if you are lacking interest there, no excitement is there, this means this work does not suit you. Think for your betterment and not what other people will think of you.
If there is no area of freedom, excitement and merriment, you are ready to give up.
You cannot think any positivity
If you are working hard to achieve a dream but it seems to be dream only, and you cannot think of any positivity, you are sabotage of your own efforts. If you cannot get positive response from that work and if you are not getting any positive vibes from within yourself, RE-THINK. 'Is this job perfect for you?' 'Can you think good about yourself?' This things can you make feel worse about the positivity. If you are juggling with these signs, it's time, give up.
Extremely low self-esteem If you are thinking what is going wrong with you, if you are feeling disturbed all the time, you are questioning your self-worth. This is a worst. Low self-esteem leads to mental issues and psychological problems like stress, anxiety, depression, mood swings and sometimes addiction to your bad habits. If you are experiencing these symptoms, your time has arrived. Give up.
What is your morning mood?
If your morning mood is upset and you cannot think positive but only negative thoughts are coming in your mind. You know what to do. If your inner self is not supporting you in your work, stop that work. Find that career that you are meant for you, you can work there peacefully, you can meet people and can take fresh breathe. Sometimes, something's absence makes you a better person. Cherish its absence. It is always, always a blessing in disguise. Your decision of giving up may not be easy, but it can open a new way of living life. It can give you a positive life full of new people, opportunities and a joyful life. Letting go off old jobs will get you on the path of learning, growth and finding yourself.
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