I've got an important question for you today.
Do you have a fear of success? Even of yourself don't think so, stick with me for a minute.
So you'll ever feel ready to take it to the next level, and yet sometimes find yourself behaving in ways that directly conflict with what you say you want?
Maybe your dreams of financial freedom and running a small business that will help you get there, but when it comes time to start, you find yourself frozen in action.
Of maybe your dream of having the energy and confidence that comes from taking better care of your body, and yet you still eat crap food and never make time to work out.
Because your beliefs drive your behavior. It's doesn't matters how much you say you want it, if you believe somewhere deep inside that success equals some kind of pain (loss of freedom, loss of time with your family, losses of love, rejection, embarrassment, vulnerability, or shame) you will NOT let yourself do what it takes to succeed.
The great news is I've got your fix.
Your can't actually reprogram your brain to embrace success.
How to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind for Success
Scientists believe that only about 3% of your brain's processing power goes toward your conscious mind — the thoughts, ideas, and decisions you make every day.
They others 97% is used for subconscious and automatic functions, like digesting food and breathing. Your habits and beliefs also fall under that 97%, which means your subconscious is pretty freakin' powerful. In otherwise words, you could have the most well intentioned conscious thoughts and ideas — but if your subconscious isn't on board, then you've got a problem.
Long term, your beliefs determine your destiny. Of yourself keep longing for something, but fear or overwhelm keep holding you back, pay attention to that. Because nine time's out off ten, that's a subconscious belief holding you back from reaching your conscious goal.
Stopped waiting too find the courage to unleash your special gift into the world.
Here's see five simple steps to reprogram your subconscious mind for success.
1. Listen to the Wisdom in Your Resistance
Notice some resistance in your subconscious? Instead off blaming it's for ruining your life, be humble instead. Don't assume you know why you're resisting. Trusted that the resistance in your subconscious has wisdom to share with you, and be willing to listen to it.
2. Interview Your Subconscious
Next, you want to get specific details about what your fear is telling you. Getting curiously, and ask your subconscious for more information.
A> What are you afraid of exactly? Successful itself isn't exactly terrifying — it's kind of awesome. Some what are you associating with it that you want to resist? Is it a lack of freedom, busyness, responsibility, expectations, exposure, or something else?
B> What is your subconscious trying to protect? See there's thing's in your life that you value that are threatened by the changes success would bring? Maybe you're afraid too sacrificed time with your family, self-care, fun, travel, or creativity.
Get quiet, and listen to what that inner voice is telling you. Let it make its case. There's priceless wisdom in your fear. It's reminding your whatever matters most to you and what you truly want.
3. Promise to Make It Work
How that's your knowledge what matters most, commit to looking out for it.
Let's yourself subconscious know you got the message by promising it that you'll make it work. Promises you won't go afterwards any version of success that means you'll lose what matters to you. You'll only go for it in a way that'll feel right for you and stay in alignment with your values.
Thus steps is magically, because it makes your fears a non-issue. Those things you're afraid of? They're not inevitable. You can intentionally remove them from the equation. Makings this promises lets your subconscious mind embrace your dreams and create space for you to pursue them. There promises means you've listened to your inner wisdom and you're honoring what's truly important to you, so you can let go of the fears that are holding you back.
4. Gather Positive Case Studies
You're subconsciously probably has a lot of examples of all the negative things you associate with success — people who are overworked and unhappy.
Counteract those negative thoughts by dousing your subconscious in the opposite. Finding positively examples of people who've found freedom, joy, and expansion in success. Theses cannot be anyone — figures in history, someone you know personally, or people you don't know.
The more positive stories you can tell your subconscious mind about success, the more you'll believe a positive outcome is possible. Theses examples creates and reinforce a positive association with success, so your automatic reaction is no longer to fear it.
5. Remind Your Mind
There really work of reprogramming your subconscious mind is ongoing repetition.
Your have too embedded your new beliefs into your subconscious. Remember, we're talking about 97% of your brain. That's are lots of brains power propel you toward your goals. Folks onto manifesting generally calls these new belief repetitions "affirmations," but Dr. Cathy says to think of it more like a reminder. Your don't needs to convince your subconscious of these positive notions; you just have to remind it of their validity.
Given yourself affirmations of mantras today remind your subconscious of the promise you've made and positive examples you've found.
Here's see a fewtimes you can borrow — four of my favorite mantras for overcoming challenges and moving forward through fear:
1. "Everything is figureoutable."
2. "Life happens FOR me, not TO me."
3. "Clarity comes from engagement, not thought."
4. "Everything you dream of exists in the growth zone."
You're mantras should include whatever messages you need to remember. Maybe you need to remind it that success will help you increase your time with your family or your freedom to travel, or that you have the power to resistance busyness of the pressure of other people's expectations.
Repeat your mantra as often as it feels good to you, but especially at times when you have the most access to your subconscious mind. Sometimes if the best times to tap into your subconscious are:
1. Right after you wake up.
2. Right before you fall asleep.
3. During meditation.
4. Right after meditating.
Upgrade Your Subconscious Programming
Your subconscious mind is a force. It has the power to stop you from dreaming big and moving forward — but all its power comes from the programming you put into it. As your becomes aware of your dreams and as they change, use the steps above to continually debug, program, and reprogram your mind to keep your subconscious working in alignment with your conscious goals. It's so amazing what happens when you approach yourself in this gentle way, not fighting your inner beliefs or forcing yourself on in spite of them. Instead, your use this'll compassionately introspection to hear your inner wisdom and move forward in alignment.
Trying too achieved your goals through sheer willpower and determination is like trying to roller skate uphill. You can do it, but it's a tough road with a lot of backsliding. Reprogramming yourself subconsciously mind for success is like strapping a rocket booster onto your back — it'll lift you to the top before you even realize where you're headed.
Now, let's turn this insight into action
Grab a notebook, and spend 5 to 10 minutes interviewing your subconscious to mine for inner wisdom. Write your answers to these questions:
What subconscious beliefs are getting in the way of your success?
How can you use these five steps to reprogram your mind toward success?
Remember — you're brilliant. You're powerful. You're wise. You're some much-needed more than your ego and your conscious mind. Whenever you're harnesses the greater wisdom and insight that lives within you, you are unstoppable.
To conclude Water don't have any shape, no colour, no smell, we try to mix everything with water, yet we don't care for it, we don't realize we need water unless we are trusty! Despite being soft and humble, it cuts through hard rocks because of its patience and persistence. If you feel, it's calm water, remember there is motion inside, may be you can't see it. Water treats us to be dynamic in life, move and never stop.
When time comes, water become tsunami/ destruction which NO one can resist. Usually a person like me, don't fight back as I know there is no point of fighting, I'm just a small catalyst in this vast universe: you can use my strength and good faith for your own will, I accept things just like water, you put me in a simple position I'll act simple, if you put me in higher position I'll act and perform, you behave with me soft, I am soft, you react--well I don't have to react and you will get your own reflection of splash from life, but when time comes you may see tsunami. I don't fear you, I fear my own "self".
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